assalamualaikum...
ehem2...well, I am back to myself...normal and steady..
no emotional and hard feelings...weeehee~~~
so, I bet all of us have our own plan for the future...am I right???
even those who are no longer in this world, also have their life plan and unfortunately for them, cannot be realised...
well, planning you future is something big...not something like planning a social event or gathering...
the future...well it will definitely includes your study, jobs, life, family, life partner, love life, money and etc.
but do you think you will be able to plan all this and make sure it will happen???
that is why we should work for it but let it be decided by Allah...
what I meant is like, we study aiming to be a lecturer...yes we can aim...
but who knows we might instead be a teacher???
we love someone so desperately...
planning how to live our life with him...
falling in love each day,
making unconditional promises of love,
building a imagination relationship that is not legally tied like coupling,
planning a life together...
take a second and think, is not there is possibility that along your long life journey ahead, you might find someone else and you might just change in a flip of eyelids...
we already pick a man for our life without even considering that someone might appear as another choice in the future...
"...man proposes, God disposes..."
"tak semua kau rancang akan berlaku"
so, why don't we plan nicely but let it slide along with time...
leave the future alone until it comes...
"Be not hasty and rushed for things that have yet to come to pass. Do you think it is wise to pick fruits before they become ripe? Tomorrow is non-existent, having no reality today, so why should you busy yourself with it? Why should you have apprehensions about future disasters? Why should you be engrossed by their thoughts, especially since you do not know whether you will even see tomorrow..."
I am not referring this for anyone...it is for me myself...
but still any other opinion is welcomed...
everyone will have their own way of interpreting life, own perception...
so, be happy for what you have...it is your life.. =)