131. #TipsForBoysInLove

45 THINGS A GIRL WANT, BUT WON'T ASK FOR:

1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.
>>>Are you remembering this?

6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.
>>>KEEP READING ..

11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say “I love her more than you”, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved.

>>>Are you thinking of someone?

16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.
>>>One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.

21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car - it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.

22. Tell her she’s your everything - only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her - if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT - so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!
>>>WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US

26. Don’t lie to her.
27. DON’T cheat on her.
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants.
29. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her.
30. Be there for her whenever she needs you, and even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can always count on you.
>>>ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER, BECAUSE IT’S IMPORTANT.

31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Don’t ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If she’s upset, comfort her.
>>>REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT ..

36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
>>>MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED.

41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while you’re sitting on her.
>>>You’ll never know when she needs just a little more love .. ♥!

♥!

hehe, so, gurlz out there...are these really what you all want??? erm, as for me, I am not exactly sure myself...They are pretty confusing actually...haha...but there is no doubt that there are few things that should not be done without halal relationship...so, I guess, this would be practical after you get married lads! tell your husbands these, and you'll definitely get them...well, it still depends...

kalau tak dapat, pandai2 lah...jangan cari sy...hehe

as for boys, jgn terus wt bnd ni...bek confirmkn dulu..tak memasal kang ada mamat kene ketuk or tampar ngan perempuan tu...hahaha...

AdiOs!!!

130. #JomTidur

Assalamualaikum...

well, generally, semua orang suke tidur...betul tak??? haha, tak payah nak cover sangat lah...mestilah suka sebab dah penat kan..haha

tapi, macam buat benda lain juga, mesti ada adab dan pantang larangnya kan??? haha, standardlah tu...so, ade lah benda nak share nye..benda ni jumpa kat satu tempat ni, from member..haha...

5 LARANGAN DALAM TIDUR :

1. JANGAN TIDUR MEMAKAI JAM TANGAN
Jam boleh menghasilkan radioaktif, walaupun hanya sedikit, tapi kalau terlalu lama memakainya boleh mendatangkan bahaya.

2. JANGAN TIDUR MEMAKAI COLI (buat perempuan)
Para pengkaji di Amerika mengatakan bahawa memakai coli lebih 12 jam, boleh mengakibatkan kanser payudara.

3. JANGAN TIDUR MEMBAWA HANDPHONE
Gelombang Medan magnet yang dihasilkan oleh alat elektronik ini, boleh merosakkan sistem syaraf kita

4. JANGAN TIDUR KETIKA MASIH MEMAKAI MAKE-UP
Hal ini dapat menimbulkan masalah pada kulit, kerana kulit tidak dapat bernafas

5. JANGAN TIDUR DENGAN ISTERI ORANG (buat lelaki)
Ini kerana anda mungkin akan tidur selamanya , kehkehkeh

haha, pepandailah nak sort information ni ye...tapi, well, hehe macam dah biasa je buat semua tu, except for number 5 la of course...because I am not a guy...huhu...

AdioS!

129. Finding Resolution

assalamualaikum,

here is my facebook status recently :
"kadang2 di saat hati mula ragu, ada keyakinan datang menyelinap dalam diri...begitu juga ketika hati mula yakin, ada cubaan dan dugaan datang mencabar..."

acutally, I have been in this relationship with someone for only about 3 months...well, today, it is exactly 3 months but the real basis of our relationship is actually much longer than that..hehe...(feeling satisfied)

however, lately I have been disturbed by an issue that makes my heart become emotionally unstable...
and the only issue that would arise is about the hukum for being in relationship (of course)...there are so many ideas and arguments about it...I agree to the opinion that we should refer to more than one source, but this matter seems like there will be no definite resolution...just like the earth, it keeps going round and round without an end to the route...(and I am feeling frustrated already)

so, due to this error in the programming of my soul, I frequently doubted what is right and what is wrong...when I try to do things according to the arguments from side A, I will start to objectively agreeing to the arguments from side B...and vice versa...hence, this has affected my emotion and sometimes, (I think most of the time..he would think so too) I will be very uncomfortable that I started to treat him coldly...as cold as ever..colder than the ice at the earth pole... :'(

but still, whenever this problem is discussed, there are no real answers to solve the problem...new arguments will always come up and there will be new debate on it...so, when exactly will it end??? (hope someone can answer me)

so, at first, I always avoid from telling this problem to my bf...whenever he asked, I always give excuses and said there is nothing wrong...but I cannot deny it that I felt really bad to have him be treated very coldly...so, one day, I just figure out that I should and can share the problem with him...

so there start the explanation and confession of what really was going on and what was really wrong with me...and he was like lost in words and he just said that he loves me and we will try our best to make sure that this relationship is not taking the wrong path...huhu...so in the end we finally agreed to work hard together to take care this relationship well and always reminds each other...(I was so glad)

but then, a few days later, I found two things that freaked me out..one was a status at facebook and the other one is the tweet at twitter...here they are:

from facebook,

"According to research, those in arranged marriages – or who have had their partner chosen for them by a parent or matchmaker – tend to feel more in love as time grows, whereas those in regular marriages feel less in love over time.. "

(hidden identity)

from twitter,

"Don’t stay in a haram relationship with the intention of making it halal someday. Who promised you tomorrow? "

(hidden identity)

hence, because of these two I would say, quotes from someone, they really hits directly through my heart leaving a very huge hole on it...huhu...I am so sad and I shared what I found with my bf...so, he was at the same state with me and he was startled by it...he was speechless at the moment and suddenly he stop replying my message...

at first I thought that he was feeling bad or what, but suddenly his text message came in and as usual, he sent me words of comforts that allow me to agree and decide the resolution for the problem...here is a part of his message that I was really touched...

"...make it clear and put aside all the other unnecessary things...you remind me, I will remind you...what happen now, make it worth for the future...we pray to Allah, may Allah keep our hearts at the right path...and if we are going to be together, may we be blessed...but if not, may Allah separate us in a good way...if it turns out that He is testing us, be strong and remain, cause He knows whats best for both of us..."

sometimes, we can turn our destiny and fate the other way round...like playing monopoly, there will always be fate through out the whole round...and the fate itself is a probability that is still cannot be confirmed to be a certainty...what is certain is we will stop by at the fate box, but what fate card will we open up, nobody can tell...but the fate card that is fated for us, can always change depends on the arrangements of the cards when it is prepared...

so, be well and strong enough to view everything positively from every aspect of life...so that we will be satisfied and we will not be frustrated with our decision...

"there is no such thing as right decision...but we got to make the decision to be right...by doing the right things after choosing our decision..."

and 

"never afraid of feeling regret...cause there should be no regrets...if its good, then its awesome...it its bad, then its experience...learn from it well..."

that's all...gtg...someone's waiting for me...

Adios Amigos!!!

128. Jika Benar

Assalamualaikum,

hanya kau satu

Jika Benar Hatiku Mencintaimu kerana Allah

Wahai diri...
Jika memang kau mencintainya kerana Allah
Cintailah dia dengan cara yang benar
Cintailah dia pada saat yang tepat

Ya Rabb..
Berikanlah aku kekuatan dan peringatan agar

Aku tak akan memaksakan diri hanya untuk sebuah perasaan

Ya Rabb..
Jika dia memang jiwa yang telah Kau pilihkan untukku, berikanlah kami jalan dan petunjuk
Jika dia memang takdir bagi ku, layakkanlah dia untuku dan layakkanlah diriku untuknya

Ya Rabb..
Aku memilihnya kerana sebuah keyakinan...
Aku terima seluruh kelebihan dan kekurangannya...
Aku terima seluruh luka dan bahagia yang menyertai hidupnya...
Aku terima dirinya dengan seluruh apa yang telah Engkau berikan untuknya...

Ya Rabb..
Jika ada dua pilihan dan diantaranya adalah dia, tentu aku akan memilihnya
Jika ada sepuluh pilhan dan diantaranya adalah dia, tentu aku akan memilihnya
Jika ada seratus pilihan dan diantaranya adalah dia, tentu aku akan memilihnya

Dan jika hanya ada satu pilihan, dan tidak ada dia dalam pilihan itu…
Maka aku pun akan menerimanya sebagai pemberian terbaik dari Mu…
Aku tidak akan memaksakan diriku untuk memilihnya...

Kerana Engkaulah yang Maha Mengetahui
Kerana Engkaulah yang Menciptakanku
Kerana Engkaulah yang Memelihara diriku

Ya Rabb…
Jika dengan menutup cinta ini yang menjadikan-Mu redha kepadaku..
Jika dengan mengorbankan perasaan ini Engkau menyelamatkanku..
Di saat manusia tergelincir dari jalan-Mu..
Maka aku serahkan cinta ini untuk Mu..
Sebagai wujud bakti ku pada Mu..
Sebagai wujud syukurku pada Mu..

Allahumma Ya Muqollibal Qulub, Tsabbit Qolbi ‘ala Diinik, Wa'ala Ta'atiik..

Aku yakin bahawa tidak ada Ketetapan-Mu yang salah
Aku yakin bahawa semua Kehendak-Mu sangat terukur
Buatlah aku mencintai pilihan yang Kau berikan
Buatlah aku setia pada pilihan yang Kau tetapkan
Buatlah aku menyayangi pada pilihan yang Kau amanahkan

Ya Rabb..
Dengan segala Kekuasaan-Mu..
Dengan segala Kekuatan-Mu..
Dengan segala Keagungan-Mu..

Hamba mohon pada Mu,
Kuatkanlah hati ini saat ketetapan Mu membuat hati ini terasa sempit..
Tenangkanlah hati ini saat ketetapan Mu membuat hati ini terasa berat..
Sesungguhnya hanya dengan Pertolongan-Mu,
diri ini mampu menjalani semua ketentuan-Mu.

Ya Rabb ..
Buatlah diriku mencintai Mu lebih dari segala makhluk yang telah Engkau ciptakan

Ya Rabb
Buatlah diriku mencintai Rasulullah,  

Kerana Engkau pun mencintainya(Rasulullah)

Inilah isi hatiku, inilah harapanku, inilah keyakinanku…

Aku tidak hanya mencintaimu..
Tapi aku ingin mencintaimu kerana Allah..
Aku ingin mencintaimu dengan cara yang benar..
Aku ingin Allah redha dengan cinta ini..

Tak usah khawatir jika engkau adalah Qudrah dan Iradah-Nya
Kerana semuanya pasti akan terjadi,
Hanya waktu yang akan menjadi saksi kekuasaan-Nya
Tak usah memaksakan jika kau memang bukan untuk diriku
Kerana pasti aku bukan yang terbaik untukmu

Sehebat apapun cinta ini…
Tidak akan pernah mampu menyelamatkan kita,
Saat matahari hanya satu hasta di atas ubun-ubun kita..

Karena yang terbaik adalah…
Kita menjaga perasaan dan keyakinan ini dengan sebersih-bersih ketauhidan
Kita diwafatkan bersama hamba-hamba yang berbakti
Hamba-hamba yang mengorbankan sesuatu yang paling dicintainya untuk Tuhannya

Semoga Allah mempertemukan kita kembali disatu tempat
Dimana para abid melihat Rabb-nya dengan penuh keredhaan dan kebahagiaan

Kulakukan semua ini, karena aku mencintaimu karena Allah swt..hanya Dia

Aamiin..

Diadaptasi dari karya,

Arif Ashadi 

p/s : kepada dirimu yang kusayangi di luar sana, semoga hatimu juga mengharap pada ketulusan sebuah keyakinan yang sama seperti hatiku...semoga kau juga mencintaiku kerana Allah...kerana hanya dengan begitu, ikatan hati kita terpelihara daripada godaan yang melemahkan Iman...

127. Belajarlah wahai Hati

Assalamualaikum,

hehe, there was one day that I went to Shah Alam Section 14...because my younger sister was having some work there and we were planning on having our vacation at Kuala Lumpur...maybe with shoppings...hehe

anyway, on that day, I was able to meet with my boyfriend at the mall where my sister need to go to...and we met, eventhough for a while, it makes me really happy..

but, at night, we text and he was not really well...I was worried and suddenly I realised something...
during that day, I was left, not once, not twice but triple time...huhuhu

1. he left me after we met with the reason that he had group discussion but on his way back, the discussion was cancelled
2. he left me in the evening while we are messaging cause he wanted to sleep due to the headache that he was having
3. he left me while messaging me, again, at night after taking panadol because his headache was still not going away and he was in so much pain

so, only then I really felt the feelings of being left...and sometimes, I did doubt him because with the long distance separating us apart, he might be telling lies to me and was actually trying to avoid me...but anyway, I tried to keep my faith on him..

so, that night, I learnt something that I should realise...with our risky relationship that I can't still fully believe him, I should understand the possibility is still there for him to turn away from me and leave me..hope not..

*****

Belajarlah untuk kehilangan dia, andai dia bukan jodoh KAMU .
Belajarlah untuk tabah, andai dia pergi dari hidup KAMU .
Belajarlah untuk menerima hakikat, yang dia bukan milik KAMU
Belajarlah untuk berhenti mencintai dia, andai cinta dia bukan untuk KAMU

Dan kadang-kadang kita bodoh
Dengan mencintai orang yang meninggalkan kita
Tapi meninggalkan orang yang mencintai kita

Kita sibuk memandang pintu yang tertutup untuk kita
Sehinggakan kita tidak perasan pintu yang terbuka luas menanti kedatangan kita...

and That Is LIFE...

*****

but still, I will try not to be fooled not to be cheated and not to be hurt...
at the same time, I will try to believe in him to have faith in him and to trust him...

126. Sahabatku...Ikhlas

Assalamualaikum...

I was really attracted with the dialogue from the story "Ayat-Ayat Cinta" where the hero named Fahri was taught and reminded by his cellmate...about Islam...

"Islam itu sabar dan ikhlas...sabar dan ikhlas..."

and what is really the meaning of the word 'ikhlas'??? sometimes, we often say verbally that we are sincere about something...but, is it really true or it is just a word that comes out from our mouth to ease the feelings of both sides involved...

here are some useful concept of sincerity that I obtained fro a source...

~~ Dalam ikhlas tak ada lelah untuk selalu menunggu, tidak lelah menanti, tak jua bosan...

~~ Dalam ikhlas tak pernah ada luka batin, tiada ada sakit hati, tak pula ada benci...

~~ Dalam ikhlas tak ada buruk sangka, tak ada keluh kesah, tak jua ada fitnah..

~~ Dalam ikhlas tak ada amarah...

~~ Dalam ikhlas tak ada rasa takut, tak ada khawatir & cemas, tidak juga rasa was-was...

~~ Dalam ikhlas keredhaan itu terbentuk, dalam keredhaan itulah keiklashan yang teruji....

~~ Keridhaan & keikhlashan adalah segala sesuatu yg kita sandarkan hanya kpd Allah...

Hanya Allah lah yang berhak memberikan keikhlasan ke dalam hati hamba-hamba-Nya...Ingatlah sahabatku jika engkau ikhlas & engkau redha pada ketetapan-Nya maka Allah pun redha padamu...Rasulullah SAW, kekasih Allah yang paling mulia... bersabda,

"Berkaitan dengan ikhlas, aku bertanya kpd Jibril. apakah ikhlas itu....? Lalu Jibril berkata, "Aku bertanya kepada Tuhan yang Maha Suci tentang ikhlas, apakah ikhlas itu sebenarnya...?" Allah SWT Menjawab : "Ikhlas adalah suatu rahsia dari rahasia-Ku yg Aku tempatkan di hati hamba-hambaKu yg Kucintai." (HR. Al-Qazwini)

May all of us are able to obtain the purity of our heart in order to become sincere... =)

125. Orang yang Mendapat DOA Malaikat

1. Orang yg tidur dalam keadaan bersuci. 

Rasulullah S.A.W bersabda yg bermaksud :“Sesiapa yg tidur dalam keadaan suci, Malaikat akan bersamanya di dalam pakaiannya. Dia tidak akan bangun hingga malaikat berdoa: “Ya Allah, ampunilah hamba-Mu si fulan kerana tidur dalam keadaan suci.” [Hadith Riwayat Muslim]

2. Orang yg sedang duduk menunggu waktu solat. 

Rasulullah S.A.W bersabda yg bermaksud : “Tidaklah salah seorang antara kalian yang duduk menunggu solat, selama ia berada dalam keadaan suci kecuali di kalangan Malaikat akan mendoakannya: ‘Ya Allah, ampunilah ia. Ya Allah sayangilah ia." [Hadith Riwayat Muslim]

3. Orang yg berada di saf depan solat berjemaah. 

Rasulullah S.A.W bersabda yg bermaksud : “Sesungguhnya Allah dan kalangan Malaikat-Nya berselawat ke atas orang yg berada pada saf depan.” [Hadith Riwayat Muslim]

4. Orang yg menyambung saf pada solat berjemaah. 

Rasulullah S.A.W bersabda yg bermaksud : “Sesungguhnya Allah dan kalangan Malaikat selalu berselawat kepada orang yg menyambung saf.” [Hadith Riwayat Muslim]

5. Mengucapkan ‘amin’ ketika seorang imam selesai membaca Al-Fatihah. 

Rasulullah S.A.W bersabda yg bermaksud : “Bila seorang imam membaca ayat terakhir al-Fatihah sehingga selesai,maka ucapkanlah oleh kamu ‘aamiin’ kerana sesiapa yg ucapannya itu bertepatan dengan ucapan Malaikat maka dia akan diampuni dosa2nya yg lalu.” [Hadith Riwayat Muslim]

6. Orang yg duduk ditempat solatnya selepas melakukan solat. 

Rasulullah S.A.W bersabda yg bermaksud : “Kalangan Malaikat akan selalu berselawat kepada satu antara kalian selama ia ada di dalam tempat solat, dimana ia melakukan solat.” [Hadith Riwayat Muslim]

7. Orang yg melakukan solat Subuh dan Asar secara berjemaah. 

Rasulullah S.A.W bersabda yg bermaksud : “Kalangan Malaikat berkumpul pada saat solat Subuh lalu Malaikat (yang menyertai hamba) pada malam hari (yg sudah bertugas malam hari hingga Subuh) naik (ke langit) dan Malaikat pada siang hari tetap tinggal. Kemudian mereka berkumpul lagi pada waktu solat Asar dan Malaikat yg ditugaskan pada siang hari (hingga solat Asar) naik (ke langit) sedangkan Malaikat yg bertugas pada malam hari tetap tinggal lalu Allah bertanya kepada mereka: 'Bagaimana kalian meninggalkan hamba-Ku?' Mereka menjawab: ‘Kami datang sedangkan mereka sedang melakukan solat dan kami tinggalkan mereka sedangkan mereka sedang melakukan solat, ampunilah mereka pada hari kiamat." [Hadith Riwayat Muslim]

8. Orang yg mendoakan saudaranya tanpa pengetahuan orang yg didoakan. 

Rasulullah S.A.W bersabda yg bermaksud : "Doa seorang Muslim untuk saudaranya yg dilakukan tanpa pengetahuan orang yg didoakannya adalah doa yg akan dikabulkan. Di kepalanya ada Malaikat yg menjadi wakil baginya, setiap kali dia berdoa untuk saudaranya dengan kebaikan, Malaikat itu berkata ‘aamiin dan engkau pun mendapatkan apa yg ia dapatkan." [Hadith Riwayat Muslim]

9. Orang yg membelanjakan harta (sedekah). 

Rasulullah S.A.W bersabda yg bermaksud : “Tidak satu hari pun dimana pagi harinya seorang hamba ada padanya kecuali dua Malaikat turun kepadanya, satu antara kedua-duanya berkata: ‘Ya Allah, berikanlah ganti bagi orang yg berinfak..(sedekah)." [Hadith Riwayat Muslim]

10. Orang yg sedang makan sahur. 

Rasulullah S.A.W bersabda yg bermaksud : “Sesungguhnya Allah dan kalangan Malaikat-Nya berselawat kepada orang yg sedang makan sahur." [Hadith Riwayat Muslim]

11. Orang yg sedang melawat orang sakit. 

Rasulullah S.A.W bersabda yg bermaksud : “Tidaklah seorang mukmin menjenguk saudaranya kecuali Allah akan mengutus 70,000 Malaikat untuknya yg akan berselawat kepadanya di waktu siang hingga petang dan di waktu malam hingga Subuh." [Hadith Riwayat Muslim]

124. In Love with Engineer

assalamualaikum,

hehe...nothing to say today...

just to say that my boyfriend is taking an engineering course...

hehe, I was actually confused before whether to take medicine or engineering course,

but I ended up choosing Medicine since I think I like it little bit more than engineering...

hehe, fortunately, my unrealized dream finally comes very near to me,

through someone whom I L**E...hehe..

I was glad, but one important think is that,

I did not fall in love with what he studies or who will he become...

but it is HIM, his own self that I l**e...

hehe...okay that is all with this crap...no idea actually...

just feeling excited with the happiness...

123. Inilah Caramu...

Kekasihku..!!!

Mungkin kau memang tidak romantis

Mungkin kau memang tidak mampu membelikanku bunga

Atau mengajakku jalan-jalan di pinggir pantai yang indah.

Atau mungkin tidak bisa memberikanku puisi indah

Aku maafkan, aku tahu, itu memang bukan gayamu

Dan sesungguhnya kau tidak boleh melakukannya.

Kau mencintaiku dengan caramu sendiri.

Entahlah kalau kamu sedar ataupun tidak

Kau mencintaiku dengan mendoakanku dalam nafasmu.

Kau mencintaiku dengan cara sendiri

Mengajakku mengenal syurga yang abadi

Supaya aku tahu, kita akan bersama bukan hanya di sini.

Kau mencintaiku dengan cara setia padaku

Saat aku pergi jauh darimu 

Kau masih menyimpan semua tentangku.

Kau tahu hal tersebut

Memang tidak ada romantiknya.

Untuk itu, kau minta maaf padaku.

Tapi, begitulah caramu mencintaiku.

Kau berharap aku mengerti

Dan mampu memahamimu

Dalam setiap langkahmu.

Kerana kau mencintaiku kerana ALLAH...

p/s: note that the post number is 123 significantly proving that there is only 1 way 2 show 3 words...and you will have your own way in showing and proving to me your 'I Love You' to me... =) wee~~

122. Caraku Berbeza

Diam, itulah cara mencintaimu karena-Nya.

Mengharap kesucian agar hatiku dan hatimu tidak terbesit oleh nafsu.

Diam, itulah cara mencintaimu karena-Nya.

Mengharap ketaqwaan agar fitrah itu tidak membuat Rabb ku cemburu padaku.

Diam, adalah cara mencintaimu karena-Nya.

Mengharap syafa'at agar selamat di dunia dan di akhirat-Nya.

Diam, adalah cara mencintaimu karena-Nya.

Mengharap keredhaan-Nya agar Allah tidak membenci perilaku kita.

Diam, adalah cara mencintaimu karena-Nya.

Mengharap keikhlasan agar Allah berikan balasan yg indah bagi para pemelihara kesucian.

Aku marah,

aku cemburu,

tetapi aku lupa, 

kau bukan hakku...

Ada cinta di hatiku untukmu,

yang ku ingin agar kau tahu,

tapi sekali lagi ku terlupa,

kau milik Allah bukan milikku...

Harusku biarkan cinta ini terpendam dalam hatiku,

bila ada siraman Redha-Nya,

semoga kita kan bersama,

dan bila tidak aku yakin akan ada bibit yang lebih baik dari-Nya...

Jadi walau aku cinta aku sedar baiknya untuk diam,

biarkan Allah yang maha Kuasa mengatur-Nya,

tetapi kerana aku lupa kau bukan milikku,

dan akhirnya aku membicarakan agar terluah rasaku kepadamu...

121. Dialog Moden

hehe, so, marilah kita sama-sama ubah sikit...

trend is created by the people...

we are the one who created the trend...

if we can cause a spread of trend in fashion, 

why can't we start the trend of speaking with the right style...

hehe, just to be pondered at...

for everyone including MYSELF...errr, hehe

120. My...Best Companion

assalamualaikum...

hehe, well, actually yesterday night I was a bit emotional...I was talking with my boyfriend and everything seems  fine and right but there was something wring with my heart that it really feels like crying...

so, I started to cry without even knowing the reason why I cried in the first place...

but somehow, while I was crying badly...something crossed my mind and I said it to him...

"you know, to me, my best companion and true friend would be my tears...why? because every time I was sad or was down, and yet everyone turned their back on me, everyone left, my tears will always be there to accompany me each time and any time"

huhu...I was afraid that he might find out that I was sad, so, I covered it up with a silly question like...

"it is funny right?"

but he answered saying that ;

"it is not, its cool.."

haha...at that time I was laughing and thinking what the, but never mind, maybe he is being nice...

so, I replied back...

"owh, I see...my humor is not working on you"

and I was surprised to read his reply when he said,

"but you are not trying to make a joke right?"

so I was crying really badly and even worst...since now I think I already have 

TWO BEST COMPANION and I am actually glad that he understands me even though in such emotional moments and I was still trying to cover my sadness but he comforts me in a special way, like he usually does, and only him know how to do it well...

so, thank you for being by my side and I HATE YOU > (the opposite of it) hahaha...

119. Love and To be Loved

not everyone has the opportunity to get the chance of a mutual feelings...

sometimes, we just end up liking someone that actually likes someone else...

we get hurt, feel jealous and in pain...

but when there is no pain, there is no gain...

from the pain we felt, 

makes us little stronger,

to face the world tomorrow, 

to start to like someone else...

=)

118. Mind teaser

haha....this was posted by one of my friends in facebook...and it is true that our mind can adapt with something very fast...so, just try it and it is really fun...haha

Here are some fun facts about human brain... :)

There are no pain receptors in the brain, so the brain can feel no pain.

While awake, your brain generates between 10 and 23 watts of power

–or enough energy to power a light bulb.

Every time you recall a memory or have a new thought, you are creating a new connection in your brain

Each time we blink, our brain kicks in and keeps things illuminated,

so the whole world don’t go dark each time we blink

Laughing at a joke is no simple task as it requires activity in five different areas of the brain.

117. Imagination of Sin

assalamualaikum...

this week is really a  killer week.. we are having our semester III examination and it feels like going through the schooling system again...just because the syllabus is cumulatively from semester I until semester III...

so, something really extraordinary happened today.. I was having lunch with a bunch of people which are my classmates...they seem to have something really HOT to be talked about...and what it is, I myself was very eager to know too...

#%R^$....my throat became so thick that I had to pause eating and cannot swallow my food...I drank some water to get some easiness...and what is it about??? it is about my classmate...a boy who recently couple with a girl from the neighboring class...and rumors spread that they actually did something that is unexpected by a Muslim to do it...honestly, when I heard them, telling me about the story, I cannot bring myself to believe in their words...I refused and reluctantly said I believe in him...I just cannot imagine if he ever do such a disgraceful things...

I will never back up and leave my friend...he is my friend and I would admit that I can be said to be close with him...he actually cares about me and also he told me stories and secrets, just that I don't know if the secrets are the truth or not...

so, I decided to read the prove myself to determine the situation...we managed to find the blog that the girl wrote specially for the new relationship that they had...i read through all his post and how sad I am to just imagine that they are all true rumor and not just some empty stories made by others...

and that rumor is: 

they had slept together and they actually had it...the product of his seeds in the girls...

unfortunately, due to the condition right now where both of them are still studying, the girl abort the baby in her womb...

***********

I am confused of what should be done...

should I believe the blog...??? there is still part of me that refuse to believe that what is written is the truth...

I just imagine that what was written were all lies and just like fiction stories wrote by the girl...

and nothing is true...

but the question here is that, part of me that believes in the stories actually don't know how to behave or respond to him, my friend, my colleagues, and my classmate...

he is one of us...

someone should save him from continuously going astray, if it is true...

but still, I am afraid that despite knowing that we should not leave him alone, 

I would actually create distance between us for the only reason of not influenced by what he did...

when the devil and angel presence at the same time,

mind and heart will be clashing and opposing one another...

and only the Most Merciful Allah will be able to help...

to not let more people astray from the path of righteousness...

InsyaAllah...

116. Anak Syaitan

9 Jenis Anak Syaitan.

Umar al-Khattab r. a berkata, terdapat 9 jenis anak syaitan :

1. Zalituun
Duduk di pasar/kedai supaya manusia hilang sifat jimat cermat.Menggoda supaya manusia berbelanja lebih dan membeli barang-barang yang tidak perlu.

2. Wathiin
Pergi kepada orang yang mendapat musibah supaya bersangka buruk terhadap Allah.

3. A’awan
Menghasut sultan/raja/pemerintah supaya tidak mendekati rakyat. Seronok dengan kedudukan/kekayaan hingga terabai kebajikan rakyat dan tidak mahu mendengar nasihat para ulama.

4. Haffaf
Berkawan baik dengan kaki botol. Suka menghampiri orang yang berada di tempat-tempat maksiat (contoh: disko, kelab malam & tempat yang ada minuman keras).

5. Murrah
Merosakkan dan melalaikan ahli dan orang yang sukakan muzik sehingga lupa kepada Allah. Mereka ini tenggelam dalam keseronokan dan glamour lain-lain.

6. Masuud
Duduk di bibir mulut manusia supaya melahirkan fitnah, gosip, umpatan dan apa sahaja penyakit yang mula dari kata-kata mulut.

7. Daasim
Duduk di pintu rumah kita. Jika tidak memberi salam ketika masuk ke rumah, Daasim akan bertindak agar berlaku keruntuhan rumah tangga (suami isteri bercerai-berai, suami bertindak ganas, memukul isteri, isteri hilang pertimbangan menuntut cerai, anak-anak didera dan pelbagai bentuk kemusnahan rumahtangga lagi).

8. Walahaan
Menimbulkan rasa was-was dalam diri manusia khususnya ketika berwuduk dan solat dan menjejaskan ibadat-ibadat kita yang lain.

9. Lakhuus
Merupakan sahabat orang Majusi yang menyembah api/matahari

Mana satu jenis anak syaitan yang sering mengganggu anda ? Adakah jenis Walahaan iaitu was-was untuk menyebarkan maklumat ini ?

115. Rainbow is made

I wonder how come life is always related to chemistry, biology and physics...

sometimes, i can even see life made as experiment...hahaha

anyway, there is always saying such that

"we are given the rain when we hope for sunshine,

but you need the rain so that you can have the rainbow..."

114. Please Teach Me

haha...suddenly I start to miss and love my teacher so much...

hoping that they are always beside me and can even be with me in my dreams...

want to know why???

because I need them to teach me everything again...

since I will be having my semester exam this Friday...

huhuhu...

113. I want to hug someone

people will always feel better when we know that there is always someone there that is willingly comforting us...

especially at time that we really need a company...

so, hugs your beloved ones...hugs everyone that is dear to you and those who always be there around you...

showing some sign of appreciation does not make us loss anything...

but even ourselves will be feeling much better... :)

112. Past vs. Now

past is always history...

what we should be worrying is now how we have behaved but how to correct our mistakes...

Allah gives us one more day each day, waking up in the morning, knowing that we are still alive,

we should realize that Allah is actually giving us one more day to correct any mistakes we did on the day before..and Allah want to see if we even care to make any changes for betterment...

so, be grateful and always remember that we should be careful of what we do...

facing the music is not only accept the consequences but also be reminded that something need to be changed...

111. Paradoks

haha...I have always be like this...from before until now...huhu

is this a common problem?? I actually thought I was weird..

is it a girls problem or boys or both???

110. Simply Ignorant

assalamualaikum...

hehe...here i have some tips on how to manage stress and avoid ourselves from being affected by their words of insults...it is better to keep quiet rather than to reply...be wise...

So, remain firm and patient when facing their insults and criticism. If you are wounded by their words and let them save an influence over you, you will have realized their hopes for them. Instead, forgive them by showing them the most beautiful of manners. Turn away from them and do not feel distressed by their schemes. Their disapproval of you only increases you in worth and merit.

Verily, you will not be able to silence them, but you will be able to bury their criticism by turning away from them and dismissing what they have to say...

Say : "Perish your rage"            (Qur'an, 3:119)

just simply ignore them...

and you will feel mush better instead of feeling depressed over what they have to say...

109. Future planning

assalamualaikum...

ehem2...well, I am back to myself...normal and steady..

no emotional and hard feelings...weeehee~~~

so, I bet all of us have our own plan for the future...am I right???

even those who are no longer in this world, also have their life plan and unfortunately for them, cannot be realised...

well, planning you future is something big...not something like planning a social event or gathering...

the future...well it will definitely includes your study, jobs, life, family, life partner, love life, money and etc.

but do you think you will be able to plan all this and make sure it will happen??? 

that is why we should work for it but let it be decided by Allah...

what I meant is like, we study aiming to be a lecturer...yes we can aim...

but who knows we might instead be a teacher???

we love someone so desperately...

planning how to live our life with him...

falling in love each day, 

making unconditional promises of love, 

building a imagination relationship that is not legally tied like coupling, 

planning a life together...

take a second and think, is not there is possibility that along your long life journey ahead, you might find someone else and you might just change in a flip of eyelids...

we already pick a man for our life without even considering that someone might appear as another choice in the future...

"...man proposes, God disposes..."

"tak semua kau rancang akan berlaku"

so, why don't we plan nicely but let it slide along with time...

leave the future alone until it comes...

"Be not hasty and rushed for things that have yet to come to pass. Do you think it is wise to pick fruits before they become ripe? Tomorrow is non-existent, having no reality today, so why should you busy yourself with it? Why should you have apprehensions about future disasters? Why should you be engrossed by their thoughts, especially since you do not know whether you will even see tomorrow..."

I am not referring this for anyone...it is for me myself...

but still any other opinion is welcomed...

everyone will have their own way of interpreting life, own perception...

so, be happy for what you have...it is your life.. =)

108. Random Confusion

assalamualaikum...

well, for today, my mental, physical and emotion have been crushed upon by a big flatter machine known as male sp. in this world...haha

erm, I have been torturing myself very3 badly that no one can imagine...I am feeling really frustrated but I am really confused...

so, here I am to ask my small number of followers to give response...for some kind of stupid question that I want to ask...

1. what do you think of a man that really pro at flirting??? Can he actually be trusted???

2. What is the purpose of a man to flirt when he already has someone that he claims to love her???

3. When you are in the middle of argument with him, he lied to you for some things but after you calm down, you ask the same question but the answer is different from before, which is the real answer, what would you do???

4. Can a man actually claims that he still and always loves that girl that he left two years ago, but still like someone else and flirt with so many girls?? Is that even possible???

5. Can a man flirt with reason that he is confuse with his own feelings despite already having a girlfriend???

6. How can a man devote himself with a relationship but still claims he flirts because he might like the one that he is flirting with...??? no girl can and will do that...

that is all my question...its okay if no one answered...sometimes not knowing the reason might be better...

I just felt that how ridiculous it is for a man to start relationship but still flirts...

his claim is just that he don't want to leave those girls cause one of them might actually be the one that he really likes...

wah!!! i really feel like swearing and cursing...huhu

107. Islam itu...

assalamualaikum...

huhu...yes, I admit that i have been neglecting this blog for quite some time now due to the tonnes of work to do in IB...blame IB...haha

well, in thus post I just wanna share something that I planned to publish it at that instant I found it...
At that time, my heart was full with worries and it was so uncomfortable...
I was afraid and thought that the world is collapsing above me...
But Allah led me to something that finally made my heart to live with peace...
At that moments of sorrow and pain, I found a book on my friend's desk...
I tried to take a look and finally fall deeply in it..

here is an excerpt that when I read, I feel like Allah is the best, how He can know my feelings...
How He knows how much I need to read and remind myself about the truth of HIM...

I hope this excerpt can also be the most effective 'pain killer' for anyone that is having problem out there...

O' Allah, possessor of Majesty, Magnificence, and Might, let comfort take the place of sorrow, make happiness comes after sadness, and let safety take the place of fear...
O' Allah : Soothe burning hearts with the coolness of faith 
O' our Lord : Give peaceful slumber to the restless and serenity to disturbed souls
O' our Lord : Guide the confused ones to your light and those that are astray to your guidance
O' Allah : Remove evil whispers from our hearts and replace them with light, destroy falsehood with truth, and crush the evil plots of the Devil with your army of Angels
O' Allah : Remove from us misery, affliction and anxiety 


We seek refuge in You 
from fearing anything except You, 
from depending upon anyone except upon You, 
from putting our full trust in any one except in You...
and from invoking anyone other than You...
O' Allah please hear my wish...
You are the Supreme Patron and an excellent Protector

106. La Tahzan

¸.•❤•

..Hatiku terpikat padanya kerana DEEN yang ada pada dirinya, 

hingga ia terpancar pada TINGKAH LAKU dan PERIBADINYA 

lalu menarik perhatian jiwa ini untuk MENDEKATINYA..

Namun hakikat HASRAT itu akhirnya terpaksa DILUPAKAN selama-lamanya, 

kerana mungkin ini sekadar UJIAN untuk hatiku dan DUGAAN untuk jiwaku..

¸.•❤•

ya ALLAH..

~✿ Bila kehadiranku MENGANGGU hatinya, 

tidak membawa KEBAIKKAN padanya,

maka Kau pisahkanlah kami biarpun kami terluka.. ~✿ 

~✿ Bila aku TIDAK LAYAK dan bukan yang terbaik untuknya..

maka Kau jauhkanlah aku darinya.. ~✿ 

~✿ Bila bukan aku yang TERTULIS untuk melengkapkan separuh dari agamanya,

maka JARAKKAN kami agar tidak timbul rasa yang mengundang KECEWA… ~✿ 

Semoga hubungan kami sentiasa berlandaskan di jalan kebaikan... :)

105. Bertemu dengan Orang yang Salah

Memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita

dengan orang yg salah supaya kita

dapat menjadi penilai yg baik.

memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita

dengan orang yg salah supaya kita

sedar bahawa kita hanyalah makhluk yg

sentiasa mengharapkan pertolongan

ALLAH.

memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita

dengan orang yg salah supaya kita

dapat KASIH SAYANG YANG TERBAIK,

KHAS UNTUK DIRI KITA.

memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita

dengan orang yg salah supaya kita

sedar bahawa ALLAH MAHA PEMURAH &

PENYAYANG kerana mengingatkan kita

bahawa dia bukanlah pilihan yg hebat

untuk kita dan kehidupan kita pada

masa depan...

memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita

dengan orang yg salah supaya kita

dapat mengutip pengalaman yg tak semua

orang berpeluang untuk mengalaminya.

memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita

dengan orang yg salah supaya kita jadi

MANUSIA YG HEBAT JIWANYA.

memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita

dengan orang yg salah supaya kita

lebih faham bahawa CINTA YG TERBAIK

HANYA ADA BERSAMA ALLAH.

memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita

dengan orang yg salah supaya kita

LEBIH MENGENALI KEHIDUPAN YG TAK

SELAMANYA KEKAL...

weee...banyak mesej nye... untuk difahami oleh sang hati..

104. Time Management

hahah...time management for students...

its killing...uwaa!!~~

mood : tension with so many works to be done and so many things to think of..huhu...save me...

103. Characteristics Test

haha...this thing is fun...you got to try to do it and see what will you get...there are so many words there and no worries, you will surely find more than what you require...amazingly!!!

so, find your first three words...

as for me, I found :

funny, sad, broken

102. Mathematics Problems on Trigonometry

haha.. :D

some even says ;

"hey maths, why do you keep asking me to solve your problem? 

I have my own problems too"

and some others say it differently ;

"hey maths, I am tired already of trying to find your 'X'. 

Why don't you move on and forget her already?"

and to me, I would say...

everything is just funny...LOLs

p/s : I have maths portfolio to be done in a week time...should be dead before the deadline.. :)

101. 7 days A week

just something to be pondered at...

language is beautiful...

language itself is an art...

to understand human science...

:)

100. Knock my heart

assalamualaikum,

I was really waiting and looking forward to this post...the hundredth post in my blog...actually, I started this blog with the reason of writing story between someone and me, hoping that this blog will be the place where I can pour all my feelings and disappointment...

it became like that because I was in despair...and I was really down at that moment, living with just 0.01% of hopes to continue and go on with my life...how I belief that this 0.01% will never turn out to be dreams come true, I still hold tightly onto it...because without it, I never know if I could make it this far, to remain bold enough to face everything...

through the time, like people say, "time heals all wounds", I began to live more normally each day...I regain my strength and independence...I realized what my living purposes are and I know being so down low is not one of my vision in life...I stood up again and become strict enough to my own heart and feelings to become strong and hard enough to be broken...

that is why my blog now is quite stable with no more such emotional and sadist post...it is now just a mere story of human life in this drama of life...I regain my consciousness of not become so weak in preventing my heart to feel even the slightest wound...

as time goes by, I started to accept everything that happen...ready enough to let it go despite the strong longing for it to return at the deepest basement of my heart...but no one is to know...

99. Faith and believe

assalamualaikum,

our knowledge is limited and not enough for us to judge on our own what best for us...

sometimes, what we may think as best might be the worst for us,

but something that we thought worst for us actually gives the best for us...

and that is why, we should have faith and believe...on the destiny and fate that is already written for us...

we have no wights to interfere with God's works in determining our lives...

not to forget, our live belongs to Him..the Greatest owner and creator of everything...

and because of that too, we should always depend on Him...only Him...because he is always there despite the moments we are in...not like human that may change and might not be dependable...

here is the real-life situation when you are being too dependent to human, you start to feeling like this;

"it is ironic that when you need him, he was not there for you; 

but when you finally start to move on from him, he crawls back to you in no time"

but things will be in the opposite if the one you depend on is the only GOD...

because He will never leave you alone...He does not leave you alone...He was never leaving you alone..

praise be to Him, that even though we sometimes did waver from His love, He never did...He remains to stay with us to always guide us and show us true path...

O'God : Never take back the truth and light of goodness deeds from us when you already given it to us...

and never leave us without guidance...

98. Belajarlah Hatiku

Belajar DIAM dari banyaknya BICARA 

Belajar SABAR dari sebuah KEMARAHAN 

Belajar KESUSAHAN dari hidup SENANG 

Belajar MENANGIS dari suatu KEBAHAGIAN 

Belajar KEIKHLASAN dari KEPEDIHAN 

Belajar TAWAKKAL dari UJIAN 

Belajar REDHA dari satu KETENTUAN..

♥~ Duhai Hati... Redhalah apa yang menimpa mu

♥~ Duhai Hati... Sabarlah atas derita sakit mu

♥~ Duhai Hati... Syukurlah atas nikmat yang diberi kepada mu

♥~ Duhai hati... Janganlah engkau jemu mengingati Pencipta mu

♥~ Duhai Hati... Jangan pada mu terhimpun dosa

♥~ Duhai Hati... Taubatlah agar kau suci semula...

97. Me and You

assalamualaikum...

here. I want to create a story or mere tale about me and you. but it would not be full story but just the description on the surface. and it would be using idiomatic language.

"When I first met you, I honestly did not know that you were gonna be this important to me"

"While you are too busy looking for the perfect person, you will probably miss the imperfect person who could make you perfectly happy!!!"

"Love is like a war, easy to start, hard to end, impossible to forget;

it does not decide who wins, only who's left..."

"No man is worth my tears, but once I find one that is, 

I believe he won't make me cry..."

"Just because my eyes do not tear,

does not mean my heart does not cry,

and just because I come off strong,

does not mean there is nothing wrong..."

haha...and that is it...wee~~~ hope the message does go across....

96. Quotes #2

Quote of The Day: 

If you're a singer you lose your voice. 

A baseball player loses his arm. 

A writer gets more knowledge, 

and if he's good, 

the older he gets, 

the better he writes.

~Mickey Spillane~

95. Kerunsingan Hati

mungkin aku yang lemah

mungkin aku yang gundah

pada saat tiada masalah

aku terlupa dan mula berubah

namun aku lupa

semuanya tidak lama

hidup bagaikan roda

terdiam tanpa kata

pada saat kau hadir

aku tenggelam dalam lautan andaian

semuanya merunsingkan

mengganggu ketenangan hubungan

tenang air di permukaan 

tanpa sengaja telah aku kocakkan

melampiaskan nafsu dan kemarahan

terlupa ianya membawa kesan

kesabaran yang teruji

dengan pelbagai gangguan luaran

kau aku sakiti

pdih itu sekaligus turut hatiku rasai

hati yang kuat kian rebah

terjelepok ke batu dan pecah

hati itu terasa amat lemah

pada malam penuh dengan masalah

94. I was there

assalamualaikum...

actually there was one day when I really went somewhere with my friends and it was quite far from my place..

we went to shah alam to visit a friend at UiTM Shah Alam...she is my bestest friend...hehe

but anyhow, there is someone there that my heart wants to meet...but yet, because of some reasons, I bet that it is better not to see that person...

unfortunately, as I arrived at UiTM, I could not get in touch with my friend...and I was kind of lost in the big UiTM...so, with hesitant I had to contact the person that I want to avoid,to come down and guide me during my journey there...

I was seriously surprised by his willingness to come and see me and offer me some help...after he got me to the place that I plan to see my friend, my business there was over...but yet, I had to wait for my friend that came with me but went somewhere else with her family...

and so, only here the story, or shall I say, OUR STORY BEGUN... :)

we spent times together...

we ate together...

we walk together...

and also we look at each other...

93. Sebelum Terlewat

Surat dari anak mak yang dah tak nakal...

Mak...

Terlalu bosan rasanya duduk membilang hari... 

Dah hampir sepuluh bulan mak pergi 

Rasanya baru semalam mak peluk kiter kan sejuk syahdu masih terasa lagi nih...

Mak tau tak... 

itu lah pertama kali mak peluk anak mak yang nakal ni sejak kiter dewasa... 

dan itu juga terakhir kalinya

Emmmm...rupanya mak dah tau mak nak pergi jauh... 

nak tinggal kan anak-anak mak... nak tinggal kan dunia fana ni...

Mak macam dah sedia... 

Seminggu sebelum tu...

Mak dah menganyam tikar mengkuang 3 helai... 

Akak kata sampai ke pagi mak anyam tikar tuu... 

Tanpa rasa mengantuk, tanpa rasa letih... 

Kakak pun rasa hairan... 

Mak tak penah buat gitu...

Pastu mak pasang radio kecil di sebelah mak... 

Tapi mak seolah-olah tak sedar bahawa rancangan radio tu siaran siam ... 

Kengkadang siaran indonesia ...

Mak terus tekun menganyam...

Rupanya tikar yang telah mak siapkan tu di gunakan untuk mengiringi mak ke kuburan...

92. Running Man

assalamualaikum...

yesterday was a very happy day for me and my classmates..we had our gathering but we made it different from other gathering...we put aside the etiquette and also protocol of being a lady and gentleman...we ignore the rule of elegance and forget about the 'be strong' in front of each other...

haha...all in all, we had our greatest time spend together yesterday although it was only for about one hour...we had a PICNIC...!!! yeay.. :)

91. How to find something

well, sometimes eye can be deceived...

look at this picture...

lets play something... :)

ready???

get set...

GO!!!

haha...sometimes, there is just something, at somewhere...

LOLs...

be happy, and smile always... :)

90. Teka-Teki

Assalamualaikum,

one day, I was in class and one of my member text me and ask a question for me to answer... and I guess that idea came from biology that we learned...he even asked me to ask biology teacher to get an idea of what the answer is...so, I just wanna ask other people since when I asked my classmates, they do not know the answer too... :)

Soalan :

Dalam banyak-banyak burung, burung ape yang berpenyakit???

89. Player a.k.a. Playboy

Assalamualaikum,

when should we label a guy as a playboy?? when will we said a guy to be gentleman??

how do we actually draw a clear line to distinguish whether he is a playboy or just merely kind-hearted gentleman...

well, that focus on us, the audience of the society...the judgement made is actually based on individual perception and assumption...and all of these are actually affected by bias and also wrong reasoning...

it is us who decide whether to label a person as a good and noble person or otherwise.... for instance, when a guy talk sweetly to a lady, we would perceive it as being tacky or trying to pick up the lady...but indeed, we can try to understand the situation first..maybe, the guy is just trying to be soft to the lady as he is afraid that the lady is in fragile state to accept something harsh or direct...hence, the tacky strategy is being used to enable a person to embrace another person...

88. Quotes #1

87. Bicara Hati

Assalamualaikum w.b.t.

kali ni post ni lebih kepada penyesalan saya...bila saya terbaca benda ni rasa macam nak send direct pada someone tapi rasanya macam pelik pulak...so, biar la pesanan ni ada di sini...mengharap satu hari nanti terbuka jalan untuk si dia membacanya... :)

benda ni untuk semua kaum Adam juga...

~~~~~

Jangan sesekali kamu bersikap kejam memberikan harapan pada seseorang itu lalu dia jatuh cinta sedangkan diri kamu tidak mencintainya.

Jangan sesekali kamu hadir dalam hidup seseorang kalau ia hanya kamu rasakan akan menghancurkan perasaanya.

Jangan sesekali kamu menatap tepat di matanya jika semua yang kamu lakukan hanya kepalsuan belaka.

Jangan sesekali kamu mengambil berat ke atas dirinya terlalu berlebihan hanya kerana sekadar simpati kelak bimbang dirinya menaruh hati padamu.

Jangan sesekali diri kamu mengatakan "aku cinta padamu" sedangkan di dalam hatimu hanya nafsu yang bertakhta.

86. Wahai Sang Kumbang...

Assalamualaikum,

post ni ada banyak ertinya...yang perlu difahami oleh semua orang...kumbang ke, bunga ke...tak kesah la...

tapi saya sendiri ingin menghantar pesanan ini sepcifically untuk seorang insan, hamba Allah yang masih dalam proses mendidik hati...semoga pesanan ini akan dibawa takdir ke pengetahuan mu... :)

*****

Wahai Sang Kumbang...
Kau diberi kelebihan untuk menghisap madu bunga-bungaan,
Kau diberi peluang memeliharanya dengan kudrat tangan,
Kau diberi mandat membetulkan lenggokan bunga-bunga yang harum di taman,
Harus kau ingat amanah ini bukan mainan mahupun satu kebanggaan.

Wahai Sang Kumbang...
Tatkala Kau bertaut pada bungaan yang berduri,
Janganlah sesekali Kau kasari dengan kerakusan hati,
Kerana baginya itulah satu-satunya perisai diri,
Sebaiknya Kau belailah ia dengan kasih sayang dan rasa takwa kepada Ilahi.

85. Perbualan Hati

Assalamualaikum...

wah, it can be felt...how long I have been leaving this blog which means it has been long since I wrote about something...so, basically it feels awkward to begin with even a sentence...okay, I will go straight about this post...no mumbling please, my hand said...haha

yesterday was the day that my ex-roommate went to further her studies at UK...well, I was jealous at first...but eventually, when I was sending her off at the departure door, suddenly I felt the urge to cry....because of what ? I really don't know...it may be because of many reason...for instance, I might be sad because thinking when will my turn arrive to have such opportunity, what will happen if I am the one leaving for my further studies at somewhere far leaving my beloved, or how come my friend is leaving me behind?? 

honestly i just cannot fix my mind yesterday....everything rushed into my heads like it is a fast track highway...well, I just ended up decided not to think about it anymore...but anytime, the thought will come back of course...and, I went to KLIA to send her off with my another ex-roommate...so, on  our way back leaving the KLIA by ERL, we talked....