26. Trust can cause Frust

today I read again the blog that I follow that really attracts my attention...it is Dibah's blog : Bunga dan Taman ♥ 

so as I was reading, I realise that in this world there is nothing that we can trust to happen...and since the love itself is a subjective subject, we can never totally believe it and because of that, we can only trust Allah, the most eternal love ever...

after breaking up, we usually says something like "it's okay because he actually wants the best for me" or "I know he left me because he still loves me and he does not want me to suffer"...is that actually a fact that everyone can really see and undeniable or is it actually sweet words to make our hearts feel good and still maintaining the trust to him??? 

well, people, there is one thing that all of us girl should know and hold to it...the person that love us and whom we love is actually someone that cannot be trusted..the prove is, he already left us no matter whatever is or are his reason(s)...they still leave us despite all the promises he made to us when we once were together...

so, the reality is right on front of our eyes...they gave us their promises when they admit that they love us...but when they break even one promise they had made, is not that resembles that none of his promises are valid anymore...even the love words that he used to say...

think of it...

yes, trusting someone is not that easy...moreover when we just met each other for a short period of time...no trust can be build through a blink of eyes...when we got to know them, there will be even slightest feelings of doubt that will grow and appear in us...even sometimes in certain occasion, people who already know each other well are still unable to put their total trust...and that is what we, girl should do..

no matter how much they whine about us not trusting them, they should realise that it is not us who do not want to trust the boys, but the real point is, are they trustable???

with only this doubt feeling that we will be able to save ourselves from being cheated and drown even deeper in the feelings of love...when we did not put our total trust in them, we are actually being prepared for any unexpected things to happen...because, we should expect the unexpected...

so, be kind and love urself before you start being kind and love others...because it is the key to our happiness.. :)

♥♥♥♥♥

being nice and loving thedoes not mean to allow ourselves being cheated...